Book review · Red Sistémica
Andropause is neither the male equivalent of the menopause nor the entry into decline. The Argentine sexologist Juan Carlos Kusnetzoff sees in it an ordinary developmental crisis, between forty and sixty, and proposes to treat it as a fertile break: an ending that is also the beginning of another man. A useful read for anyone who sees men in mid-life, alone or as a couple.
“Andropause is NOT old age! Thinking of the problems of andropause as a geriatric phenomenon brings about one thing only: premature ageing.”
Juan Carlos Kusnetzoff, Andropausia
The book’s starting point is a refusal: andropause is not the male counterpart of the menopause, and it implies neither decline nor the end of masculinity. On the contrary, it is a common developmental crisis, which occurs in men between forty and sixty. This crisis marks a break, and it is from that break that the book sets out: an ending and a beginning in the making of a new individual.
Juan Carlos Kusnetzoff sets out to describe this crucial stage and the various symptoms that bear witness to it: depression, emotional instability, the fear of a sexuality that is “over” even though desire remains intact. From there the themes of the book follow on: fantasies, myths, divorce, infidelity — understood in a broad sense, since it is not exhausted by the couple but also concerns the relation to oneself, to one’s occupation, to society — and the preoccupation with health and with physical performance.
The book rests on a general principle: men in mid-life, for the most part, lead a repressed life, and they approach this stage as a problematic crisis rather than as a formative one.
What the book offers
A shift of frame, above all: what the fifty-year-old man presents as a loss (a drop in drive, doubt about his sexual worth, the temptation to leave everything behind) can be read as the crossing of a developmental crisis, with the disorganisation and the possible reshaping that this entails. The book gives the therapist a vocabulary for naming this stage in terms other than those of decline, and for placing it back within the ties — marital, professional, social — in which it is played out.
Who the author is
Juan Carlos Kusnetzoff is a physician, free lecturer at the faculty of medicine of the University of Buenos Aires (UBA) and a specialist in clinical sexology, an honorary title awarded by FLASSES (the Latin American Federation of Societies of Sexology and Sexual Education). He taught clinical sexology in the postgraduate programme of the René Favaloro Foundation, where he directed the master’s degrees in clinical sexology and in sexual education. A member and adviser of national and international institutions in his field, he has published numerous articles and books, in Spanish as well as in Portuguese.
This book review is an English translation of “Andropausia. Renacer a los 50”, published by Red Sistémica (first published in Red Sistémica). Translated and republished with the journal’s permission.
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Des Champs, C. (2022). Andropause. Being reborn at fifty (Complexe Systémique, Trans.). Complexe Systémique. https://app.complexe-systemique.com/en_GB/articles/andropause-being-reborn-at-fifty (Original work published in 2022 in Red Sistémica; republished in 2022 by Red Sistémica, https://redsistemica.ar/2022/08/01/andropausia-renacer-a-los-50/)
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